Since becoming joyful travellers in 2016, we have visited so
many amazing and interesting places.
Here is a sample of just a few:
Tauranga, North Island
Do you have a favourite cousin that you don’t see often but each time you do it is a wonderful occasion? That beautiful unspoken bond that makes every moment feel just so comfortable and joyful.
That is what being in New Zealand reminds me of – a visit to my favourite cousins’ house.
While spending 5 months visiting many towns and villages on both the North and South Islands, I feel that I am gaining insight into this magical country.
It is logical to look at it through Canadian eyes as there are many obvious similarities that can be drawn. It is easy to observe how our 2 cultures run parallel to each other and yet there are subtle and quirky differences.
I think that both Kiwis and Canadians are somewhat unconventional and we are proud to be seen as just a wee bit offbeat. As kindred spirits, there is mutual admiration.
Geography has been paramount in the evolution of both countries and people. Although Canada is undeniably attached to the world largest power, our sheer vastness often creates a sense of isolation. As for New Zealand, just take a look at a globe, it is floating out here by itself well south of almost nowhere. Being well off the radar is perceived as a good thing by most Kiwis. The fact that the leader of the free world could not find NZ on a map is most comforting.
Both countries were colonized by very brave adventurers from far away. Traversing great oceans bringing with them dreams of building something new. Interestingly, in the 1700s Captain Cook explored and surveyed both these new worlds, planting the flag in opposite corners of the planet for the King and country.
New Zealanders can be proud of the way they have embraced Maori culture. I believe that the indigenous here have been treated fairly and with respect. Regrettably, Canadians cannot say the same of our past.
Peace is a trait that both nations strive for and are they proud of their posture on the global stage. A sense of humour is another mutual trait; neither population takes itself too seriously.
Sometimes we chuckle at local news stories we read: recently the airport in Queenstown ( a major tourist destination on South Island) had to close for the night because the air traffic controller called in sick. Only in kiwi!
But any shortcomings we have witnessed are significantly overridden by kindness and a progressive attitude.
They do however need to do something about traffic safety. Kiwis 3 favourite pastimes are; rugby, sailing, and tailgating. Their death rate on highways is troubling. According to Wikipedia, NZ’s motor vehicle death rate by population is 36% higher than Canada’s.
We do notice that the country is lagging behind in green initiatives: transportation, managing waste, and energy alternatives. At the same time, it is spotlessly clean and litter doesn’t exist. People take better care of their homes and properties.
Both New Zealand and Canada are blessed with some of the most daunting geographies on the planet and the residents love to be out in it. Being active and enjoying nature are routine in both countries. New Zealand certainly gets the nod for a more agreeable climate.
Two attributes that Canadians could learn from Kiwis are civility and the ability to take time to savor life. I have experienced it over and over – Kiwis making time for each other, sharing a kind word and a smile. In Canada, we are too busy with our heads down chasing the prize; we need to picnic more often.
Johanne and I have loved our visit with our endearing cousin, it just feels so right!
New Zealand- World leader in Peace and Hope
March 23, 2019, from Nelson, New Zealand
Photo- NZ Herald by Rachel Das
It has been just over one week since the horrific mass murder in two Christchurch mosques. The event that killed fifty innocent people as they prayed, shocked the nation and the world. “How could this happen here?”
Johanne and I have a unique perspective that I hope to share. We are here in this lovely country and we have just spent three weeks in Christchurch. We feel like we know the city. We often strolled through the very neighbourhood of the Al Noor Mosque and in Hagley Park where events were unfolding. The news seemed unimaginable. If you asked us for a few words to describe Christchurch, they would be; peaceful, friendly, welcoming.
So “How could this happen here?” is a very valid question. “Why us?’ is another obvious reaction but it is the language that victims use and it does not look forward. Shocking news such as this is jarring to our psyche and time for healing is essential. However, accepting what has happened and asking “What are we going to do about it is?” is the key to moving past the emotion.
As the week unfolded, we have been able to witness how New Zealanders respond to “What are we going to do about it?” and it is profound and heartwarming.
Their young Prime Minister, Jacinda Ardern, was instantly on the news and amongst the people mourning with them. The entire country turned to her for hope and healing.
Photo of Jacinda Ardern by Kirk Hargreaves
In my estimation, she demonstrated all the traits of a great leader; empathy, compassion, enlightenment, awareness and steadfast resolve. She was out in the public embracing a broken community, its people and the entire nation.
“This is not who we are” were her initial words for the country and they understood that because it is what people were feeling. Soon after she vowed to quickly change the gun laws.
In the United States, the undisputed world leader in mass shootings, the mantra touted by ineffective politicians has always been “Now is not the time to talk gun control.” The only thing that ever changes is that the sale of weapons goes up.
Keeping her promise, in less than one week, the New Zealand parliament passed legislation to ban all military weapons. Gun owners began to surrender their rifles, and there was a buyback offered. That is what effective leadership looks like. The people could be assured to know that something positive was being done.
The weekend after the shooting, we attended what is called Race Unity Day in Nelson. Nelson is a lovely city of just over 50,000 people, yet in the park, there were 36 nations proudly represented. They were sharing with each other their diversity with traditional food, costumes, and entertainment. The sun shone and warmed us all.
Diversity is a word we proudly tout in Vancouver, but this was actually much more than that. Unity was the mood of the day; people of all walks coming together. It wasn’t them and us, where this group has a booth here and those over there have another, this was a very colourful community expressing their “oneness”. A sense that we are all in this together prevailed and our respect for each other is unwavering.
I also was aware that this is a country under “high alert” after the attack. What “high alert” looks like in NZ is; in a crowd of a few thousand people in an open park, there was just a handful of uniformed officers. They mingled about talking to people and enjoying the event. Their armament did include tazers but clearly, guns that kill would not be required here.
Maybe it is partly to do with its geography, a knowing that we are all on this small island together, that helps to foster this underlying sense of unity. There have been many amazing stories of kiwis helping one another through this recent pain. Compassion for one’s neighbour flows easily here.
Without question, New Zealand will heal and grow from this horrible event. It is my hope that the rest of the world will watch and follow the lead of this most peaceful nation. We love New Zealand and its people!
Photo by Sally Roome
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From Bequia in the Grenadines
Having the luxury of spending 3 months on this tiny magnificent Caribbean island has taught me a lot. It has put certain things into perspective and given me a greater appreciation for the wonders that surround us.
Bequia is just 7 square miles and apart from the amazing natural setting, there is not a ton of distractions. Island life has a distinctive cadence and people from “away” that can not find the rhythm don’t last long here.
My time here has taught me is how to appreciate the small things. Small things that when you take a moment to look,are pretty darn impressive in their own right.
The Infinite Shades of Jade that the Caribbean displays, are sprinkled with diamonds by gentle sea breezes. A guy could be mesmerized for hours. Finding words to adequately describe the shades would be a lifetime pursuit.
The incense of the Frangipani flowers that is like a sensual embrace. When ever I passed by the Frangipani bush that seems to bloom continually, it would draw me in to savour a moment.
I have since found that I have a great awareness of the natural aromas when out for a walk.
Of course people too have traits that deserve special attention. Kindness and good intentions blossom when given the right amount of time and nurturing. There is much humour to be shared if you take the time.
I heard a speaker once say:
” If you want to get more out of life and live longer, slow down”.
So thank you Bequia, you have taught me to take the time to appreciate the many small marvels that surround us.