Tauranga, North Island
Do you have a favourite cousin that you don’t see often but each time you do it is a wonderful occasion? That beautiful unspoken bond that makes every moment feel just so comfortable and joyful.
That is what being in New Zealand reminds me of – a visit to my favourite cousins’ house.
While spending 5 months visiting many towns and villages on both the North and South Islands, I feel that I am gaining insight into this magical country.
It is logical to look at it through Canadian eyes as there are many obvious similarities that can be drawn. It is easy to observe how our 2 cultures run parallel to each other and yet there are subtle and quirky differences.
I think that both Kiwis and Canadians are somewhat unconventional and we are proud to be seen as just a wee bit offbeat. As kindred spirits, there is mutual admiration.
Geography has been paramount in the evolution of both countries and people. Although Canada is undeniably attached to the world largest power, our sheer vastness often creates a sense of isolation. As for New Zealand, just take a look at a globe, it is floating out here by itself well south of almost nowhere. Being well off the radar is perceived as a good thing by most Kiwis. The fact that the leader of the free world could not find NZ on a map is most comforting.
Both countries were colonized by very brave adventurers from far away. Traversing great oceans bringing with them dreams of building something new. Interestingly, in the 1700s Captain Cook explored and surveyed both these new worlds, planting the flag in opposite corners of the planet for the King and country.
New Zealanders can be proud of the way they have embraced Maori culture. I believe that the indigenous here have been treated fairly and with respect. Regrettably, Canadians cannot say the same of our past.
Peace is a trait that both nations strive for and are they proud of their posture on the global stage. A sense of humour is another mutual trait; neither population takes itself too seriously.
Sometimes we chuckle at local news stories we read: recently the airport in Queenstown ( a major tourist destination on South Island) had to close for the night because the air traffic controller called in sick. Only in kiwi!
But any shortcomings we have witnessed are significantly overridden by kindness and a progressive attitude.
They do however need to do something about traffic safety. Kiwis 3 favourite pastimes are; rugby, sailing, and tailgating. Their death rate on highways is troubling. According to Wikipedia, NZ’s motor vehicle death rate by population is 36% higher than Canada’s.
We do notice that the country is lagging behind in green initiatives: transportation, managing waste, and energy alternatives. At the same time, it is spotlessly clean and litter doesn’t exist. People take better care of their homes and properties.
Both New Zealand and Canada are blessed with some of the most daunting geographies on the planet and the residents love to be out in it. Being active and enjoying nature are routine in both countries. New Zealand certainly gets the nod for a more agreeable climate.
Two attributes that Canadians could learn from Kiwis are civility and the ability to take time to savor life. I have experienced it over and over – Kiwis making time for each other, sharing a kind word and a smile. In Canada, we are too busy with our heads down chasing the prize; we need to picnic more often.
Johanne and I have loved our visit with our endearing cousin, it just feels so right! 